Have you run the patcher yet?

I'm still getting the adam spilled his paint message from the patcher

hit windows key + r.
Type cmd and hit enter.
type ping taitale.com
What IP address does it give you?
Soes it say Timed Out?

C:\Users\Danny>ping taitale.com

Pinging taitale.com [217.118.24.139] with 32 bytes of data:
Reply from 217.118.24.139: bytes=32 time=175ms TTL=118
Reply from 217.118.24.139: bytes=32 time=178ms TTL=118
Reply from 217.118.24.139: bytes=32 time=180ms TTL=118
Reply from 217.118.24.139: bytes=32 time=190ms TTL=118

Ping statistics for 217.118.24.139:
Packets: Sent = 4, Received = 4, Lost=0 (0% loss),
Appropriate round trip times in milli-seconds:
Minimum = 175ms, Maximum = 190ms, Average = 180ms

That is very strange you should be able to connect.
I have seen this once before with someone running Hamachi.

The server is definitely running, I can connect to it.
If you run Novus Splash.exe directly (root folder) what happens?

It still gives the adam spilled his paint message

My best guess would be something is interfering with your network card, which we can't diagnose.

Put this in your novus aeterno.ini under [Servers]:
AuthServerPort=10000

Connect directly with novus aeterno.exe

The auth server still won't respond

There is defiantly something local interfering with your outbound connections.

How would i check what it is? my pc is connected to my router with an ethernet cable